Monday, April 11, 2011
In-Laws
The logic behind the names for relatives gained through marriage just does not make sense. Let me first start by pointing out the obvious. Dating and/or marrying your sister is wrong and disgusting (as I'm sure most of you will agree). Now, let's look at a man who marries a woman with one brother and the standard [aside: this term is questionable] set of two parents. Once the man and woman are married, the woman's brother becomes the man's brother-in-law. This is fact. He is essentially your brother, only by legal documentation. So then, his sister would also be your sister, even if only by law. Thus, I can only conclude that this man's wife is also his sister-in-law. The man has married his sister, which we all agreed was wrong. The same conclusion is made if one follows the logic of one of the parents-in-law. Why would the term "sister" be chosen for a man's wife? From here, you can believe one of two things. Either sibling marriage is okay or the names for in-laws need to be changed. I personally prefer the second option. I'm not a language expert, so I can't use the origin of "brother" and "sister" to offer you better terms, but someone needs to. If it is too difficult to create a new term, at least bump them back to cousins-in-law. While still wrong, the weirdness of the terms is less obvious.
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